One of the most important rooms in your house is your bedroom. You will spend more than one third of your life in it mainly asleep. Your highest privacy and biggest intimacy is also hidden behind your bedroom door. After all, this is where you go to relax, recover and re-charge at the end of a busy day. It is also the abode of your romantic life.
A sensual bedroom is essential for an intimate session, and you want it in a way that supports your love, both for yourself and for others. A bedroom is a long term love nest. Let us see how you can spruce up and bring the oomph factor into the four walls of your bedroom.
Make it Personal
This means that your bedroom should express you and have in and around it furniture, artwork, clothes and items that are deeply personal. An attractive bedroom with all new furniture and no real character is lifeless.
Remove Computers and Wires
With all due respect to those who work from home and are short on space, please do all you can to keep all non-bedroom activities out of the bedroom. It just kills the space. Make sure your bedroom is a retreat from all the other stuff you do in your life. Make it your inner sanctum.
Get a Good Bed
We believe in investing in a good bed. This doesn’t mean that you need to spend a lot of money, but taking care of this purchase, spending what you can and really falling in love with your bed is a great start for falling in love in bed.
Your bedroom should be lit for you and for your easy use. This means at least three points of light, which are typically two reading lamps and one opposite. Like any good hotel setup, you want to be able to have a nice light in bed before you go to sleep and you want the rest of the room to be softly illuminated with low, indirect light. Plenty of easy to reach soft, low light is good.
Keep it Quiet
Peace and quiet is very significant in the bedroom. It communicates privacy, intimacy, and coziness. To quiet down even the noisiest bedroom you simply need to add a lot of fabric to dampen the sound. Heavy, tall curtains and a good rug or wall to wall carpet will do most of the heavy lifting here.
Candles always carry a romantic connotation and for good reason. The light they cast is the softest, warmest and sexiest around. Everyone looks good in candlelight.
Clean is Sensual
Even if you do nothing else, just make sure your room is really, really clean. It is actually the first thing a person senses when they walk into the bedroom and is the biggest turn off, even when everything else is okay. Keep clothes folded and away, the floor vacuumed (under the bed too) and all your surfaces neat and clean. Order and cleanliness in the bedroom are the best backdrop for letting go and getting wild and dirty.
Paint it Nice
There are several colors which are really inspiring. A few of our absolute favorites are red, blue, and purple. These colors are known to spark romance, sensuality and intimacy. Red is all about sensuality, however, red is not always appropriate. Bright red can be overwhelming. You can take a variation of red, like a pink, which evokes inherent romance and sensuality.
Grey bedrooms are major mood killers, dampening the prospect of intimacy. If you want to get it on with your honey, paint your love nest purple. One survey showed that people in purple bedrooms had intimate sessions for an average of 3.49 times per week, followed next by red, sky blue, and pink. Gray came in last at 1.8 times per week. Now you know what color to choose!