When the summer heat begins to rise, sometimes it’s just too hot for all that close up body contact and physical activity, and yet we yearn for the intimacy and pleasure that play gives us.
Try some of these cool little play tips that are great ways to beat the heat and yet still keep the flames of passion alive in your relationship.
1. Ice Cubes
Incorporate ice cubes into your l play and you can cool off and heat up at the same time. Take turns caressing each other with ice cubes and then licking it off.
2. The Shower
Turn the shower on as cold as you like and soap each other up. You can use this for a cool down before sensual activity and after. You can also make love in the shower and stay cool during play.
3. Draw a Bath
Fill the tub with nice cool water. You can even throw in some ice cubes to make it a little more chilly. Then crawl in together and play.
4. A Quickie
Quickies are great in the summer. Specifically the kind where he bends you over the bed, chair, coffee table etc. and there is very little close body contact. The woman can stimulate her pleasure button herself or he can reach around and do it for her.
5. Mouth play
As we all know, mouth play is often a prelude to the act, but during the dog days of summer mouth play can be a great form of play to replace the real act.
So surprise your lover by dropping to your knees for her or him or bending them over the nearest chair and indulge in some delightful mouth delicacies. Hopefully they will be so pleased with your gift that they will quickly reciprocate, if not then gently lead them where you’d like them to be.
6. Non Sensual Intimacy
Keeping sensual passion alive doesn’t always have to come in the form of physical sensual activity. When it’s entirely too hot for any physical activity, it’s a good time for non sensual intimacy. Spend some time just sitting as close as comfort allows and share your day. Lie at opposite ends of the couch with your legs between one another and talk. Hold hands while watching a movie, laying in bed or sitting on the porch swing or lawn chair. Lay on a blanket outside and observe the clouds or the stars and the moon.
With a little creativity we can keep passion and intimacy from dissipating even during the dog days of summer.
7. Go to a nearby beach and just holding hands
While water will be splashing at legs would definitely improve the emotional attachment and you would be spiced up for summer sensual play at night. Even watching romantic moments like sun setting would also throw out new summer paly tricks later in night.
8. Dress For The Weather
To light up your guy’s interest, treat him to his very own wet tee shirt fantasy. Put on a tissue-thin white tee or tank top and “accidentally” get wet so that it clings to your body. Wearing a damp top will not only cool you off, it’ll also drive him loco. “Men respond strongly to visual cues.”Being partially clothed creates a bit of mystery that guys find very stimulating. And the sight of you in a see-through top that hugs your womanly curves and showcases your upper part will really turn him on.”
9. Work The Slow Burn
“In the heat, your breathing and movements naturally slow down. “You can make the most of this effect by taking your sweet time during fore play and main play.” To kick-start your slo-mo lovemaking, present your man with a hot challenge: Make a bet that you can hold out on pouncing longer than he can. Then torment him with nerve-tingling kisses all over his neck and torso; stroke him softly where his thigh meets his groin; trail your hair and lips down his back to fire up his sensual anticipation. Then it’s his turn to tempt you. “Keep alternating—slowly escalating the level of contact—until you can’t stand it for another second. “When you build arousal slowly to a fever pitch, your climax will be a powerful release.”
10. Hit The Floor
If your summer play session gets too steamy to bear take it to ground level and point a couple of fans toward you. “As the cool breeze plays over your sweat-soaked bodies and gently moves the little hairs on your skin, you’ll feel good. “The breeze will create a rush of new sensations that will add to the pleasure you’re feeling.” Bonus: The novelty of switching your locale from in the sack to on the floor will also pump up your excitement level.
11. plan a trip to the hill tops area having cool climate and enjoy the night there.