Love & Intimacy

New Ways to Excite Her in bed

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In bedroom, once you discover a few good tricks for making her in to mood, it is hard not to fall into a routine. If something works, you want to keep doing it. Most of the time, even the best moves can get old and worn out. 

Women don't want to hit their peak in 60 seconds flat which is what can happen if you go straight to your failsafe move every time. By contrast, if you switch things up, you may find that her experience is more satisfying, since delaying her O can make it stronger. Also novel experiences elevate dopamine in the brain, and that promotes bonding.

EHC brings you a novel creative ways to touch her along the way. 

The Hood

The hood is actually an extension of the inner lips of button shaped structure in female organ. Trace her inner labia upwards until you find the fold just above her button shape structure in female organ, and rub it with your fingertips, making sure your digits are sufficiently slick with lube. When she is ready for direct button organ contact, you can use your thumb to push that skin up a little bit toward her belly button.


The classic technique is to insert a finger inside her organ, palm up, and use a come-hither movement to stimulate her. But what if that doesn't work? The G-Area is not necessarily right in the middle of that front wall. It might be a little more to one side or a little lower. Using at least two fingers, massage as much of the region as you can comfortably reach and make sure she is already wet before you work your way in.

The Mound

Atop her pubic bone, there is a mound of fatty tissue where her pubic hair grows. When you play with that area you can indirectly stimulate the button organ. To wake up the region, use the heel of your hand to press downward on the mound, in the direction of her button organ.

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Gentle Massage

Taking your time before touching her button organ can do wonders for her stimulation. So press the top part of female organ between your thumb and index finger, rubbing back and forth with a gentle massaging motion, then gently tug her lips upward. If she doesn't shave, you can even lightly pull at her pubic hair.

Circle Her H-o-t  S-p-ot

As tempting as it is to race to her button organ, tease her a little before touching down. First, apply a little lube to the padded part of your finger, and circle her button organ, applying a firm, consistent pressure. The circling motion is one of the most popular with women during her on play.

Love Cervix

If your girlfriend prefers deep pushups, she probably enjoys the sensation of cervical contact and your male organ isn't the only part of your body that can reach it. When she's excited, the cervix does pull back some. Insert your finger until you can't go any further, and gently massage her cervix, applying more pressure only if she responds with pleasure. It can be really sensitive, so try it gently.

Change the Posture

If you implement some little shifts in position, she is going to have a different emotional reaction to what you're doing. If she is normally lying on her back when you get her off, trying the same technique on all fours can feel suddenly more animalistic. Get creative. Have her lean against a wall, bend over the kitchen counter, or stand up straight; then execute the move she loves best.

Stimulate the Opening

Use two or three fingers to work your way in and out, but make sure you're not just going up and down, firmly rub against the lower hole canal. You can even linger in the opening of her main hole, moving your fingers in a circular motion, without ever taking them out completely. Women like to feel really full at the opening.

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Sweep It Up

When you are warming her up, graze your whole hand down the length of her organ, using long, sweeping pushups. Keep it fleeting. Don't worry about hitting all her nooks and crannies along the way. There's one thing that women tell me which gets them off – being rhythmic and consistent.

Use Both Hands

Use the thumb and index finger of one hand to spread her organ, and use your other hand to stimulate her button organ. Not only will opening her up give you better access to her pleasure zones, it will make her feel a little vulnerable which can be highly stimulating.

Let Her Lead

Watching herself enjoyment is the ultimate way to learn what she likes, but that level of vulnerability can be pretty intimidating for some women. So put her hand on top of yours. Let her guide your hand and be sure to make mental notes along the way.

Hit the button organ Around

The classic side-to-side, up-and-down stimulation is undeniably awesome and an almost surefire way to make her reach end. But that is really only hitting a portion of her button organ. You should try lightly pinching it, then rubbing it in a circular motion between your fingers, as if you were wadding up a piece of gum. That way, you're touching her hot spot from all angles, while also applying pressure. This is a sure shot way to ultimate pleasure.

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