We understand that there are a lot of literature and blogging about the priorities of women and what they like and don’t like about everything under the sun. It’s about time to talk about what men like or don’t like about women when they are in bed.
So, women, go ahead and read this article if you don’t want to leave a bad impression for a guy when you had an intimate session with him. These things might be helpful not for every single couple, because each of us have different needs and requirements in bed.
No lying dead
During play some women doesn‘t do anything – just lie down and expect to have some pleasure now. That is the worst thing you can do, men hate that. Women should move, despite man is on the top. Women, show your partners that you want to have ply with them as well as he does. If women look like “lying dead” – partner can even get sensual problems, if he cares how to give you pleasure.
Kiss kiss kiss
Almost every woman would agree that she likes to be kissed. Well the same is with men. They also love when women are kissing them, all his body. That drives them crazy. If you want to satisfy your men in bed, kiss him, tease and play with him.
Men like to be controlled
Some old fashioned women still think that man has to take all the control in bed while having play. But that is absolutely wrong. Women also have to take control in bed. Show that you want to have play now, tell him what he has to do, because now you are the one who is dictating the rules. I can assure your man will be very excited and pleased about such an action. Sometimes they like to be controlled.
Give & take
If you want to get pleasure, don’t forget to give it to your partner too. Men sometimes think that their lady in bed doesn’t care at all what is he feeling, does he like her actions. Women should always remember to ask questions such as “how do you like that?”, “how does that feel?” Let him know that you care what he feels and if he likes that or not. They love to have your attention.
Express emotions freely
Don’t confuse your partner. Some women don’t show their emotions – that means men do not understand weather you like it or not. Don’t feel shy to scream when you feel like screaming from pleasure, breathe a bit harder. Do some noise, because it is the best way to inform your partner about your feelings at that moment. That would help you too. Your man will know what you like best and you will be rewarded.
Men don’t like when women never show initiative to have play. Usually old fashioned or very shy women do this – never show initiative in play. If you desire to have act with your partner – show him, let him know that you are a normal person who enjoys having play and express her wishes.
Relax and feel with him
Some women immediately come back to a role of wife after making love. They start to clean themselves and sheets. Acting as play with your partner has somehow violated your sleeping space is not the best thing to do. Lie down and relax, enjoy your satisfied partner as you did it a minute ago. Men don’t like to destroy the intimate atmosphere.
Everyone knows that women like to talk a lot, but it is not the best activity to do in bed. Men hate women who talk a lot in bed. Unless it is some dirty talk or telling him things that you want him to do with you or you would want to do with him.
Men hate these to hear in bed
I'm tired: When you tell a man you are tired, especially when nothing has been done, you send a signal to him that you are seeing someone else. He might choose not to answer you immediately but he knows what he would do afterwards.
You are not man enough: You just hit him hard on the head. How would you say that? Whether in bed or not, a woman shouldn't say that.
A knock on the door: Ahhh, why now? Not this time, not when he is about to start an important race of life for a gold medal, probably, a crown. Kindly, watch it, be conscious of when a man should be with his woman. Make a call before stepping out.
Comparing with your ex: You don't have to do this even if you don't enjoy it, you can stylishly teach him and tell him more about it. Really, men hate it when you tell them your ex can do it better.
Complaint box: Some women just feel the best time to nag is in bed or you choose to padlock it if he doesn't apologize but really, that is not the best way to go about it, not even when he is set for action. Take your complaints out on a more suitable time to sort issues out.
When are you going to finish: Love making is supposed to make people feel closer than ever, but when men hear this, they feel disconnected. It may feel like she is just counting down the seconds until it is over, which makes men feel horrible.
Have you always had that mole? Though men like being looked after, but what can they do right then about that mole!
Do I look like I have gained weight? It is a manipulative question, and there’s no right answer!
I have to pee: Hold it (not literally!) This one is kind of tricky. Men don’t mind this one occasionally. But it does bring down the passion level.