Men have been obsessed with the female G-area and have probably spent a considerable amount of time trying to find it, thinking how to stimulate it and how to give a G-area pleasure.
But do men know that they have their own male G-area? Some of you may be surprised to learn that the prostate is, essentially the male equivalent of a woman’s G-area. We realize that, for some, the idea of exploring this area may be taboo, but if you keep an open mind while reading this article, our advice could lead you to one of the best pleasures you could ever hope for.
Discovering your G-area
The male G-area is not all that difficult to find, but it does require a little patience. Lying on your back is generally considered to be the most comfortable position for this. The process will be easiest with your legs elevated, which you can do by simply leaning your legs against the wall behind the bed or draping them over the back of the sofa. If you are still having difficulty reaching the perineum from this position, you can lift your backside further by sliding a pillow or two under your bum.
Once you have made yourself as comfortable as possible, start by gently massaging the area surrounding your anus. Use the soft pad of your index finger while exploring, and be gentle. As you relax further, lube your finger up and let it gently brush across the surface of your anus. Repeat this move several times, each time increasing the pressure slightly. When you are comfortable enough to begin probing, you should keep things slow and gentle, taking care to relax your sphincter during the process. Once you have come in contact with the male G-area, you will recognize it as a small, chestnut-sized bump situated approximately two inches inward.
Prostate, the walnut-size gland under the bladder is the magic button to push. To tantalize it, partway through mouth play or actual play, rest two fingers against the swath of skin between his testicles and anus. His prostate is situated above your fingers, inside his body. So by applying pressure there, you are indirectly rubbing his G-area. When you sense he is close to extreme pleasure, rhythmically press the area (one pulse every second) until he climaxes.
Stimulating your G-area
The first step in stimulating the male G-area is making oneself comfortable. Bathing beforehand can put a man more at ease with the process, so we recommend starting out with a nice hot shower.
It will take some experimentation to discover what works best for you in terms of stimulation. Return to one of the positions we mentioned earlier (lying on your back with your legs and backside elevated) and repeat the steps you used to located the prostate. As you prepare to stimulate your G-area, keep in mind that techniques vary greatly. Some men enjoy gentle thrusting movements, and some prefer intense, constant pressure on the prostate itself. You might prefer a mix of the two or something entirely different. The key is to give your body the chance to react and respond; take your time, the extreme pleasure is worth it. It is also important to note that you may not find any of these methods pleasurable during the first exploration, and that is perfectly normal; you can always try again in the future.
Why is prostate massage pleasurable? There are many reasons.
Flow burst reflex sensation
No matter which method is used it is not possible to touch the prostate directly. The nearest indirect access is through the rectal wall, which means that there is still a membrane in the way. This is somewhat akin to the inhibiting sensitivity a glove. Despite this restriction the lobes of the prostrate are highly sensitive to pressure. An array of sensations may be produced by pressing, rubbing or by means of stroking the gland through the rectal wall. The most profound of these feelings is similar to that sublime sensation which is normally felt during bursting, as the prostate begins pumping male climax fluid.
Excretory opening sensitivity
Along with the genital areas, the excretory opening is connected to and interwoven with millions of delicately sensitive nerve endings, which can yield most pleasurable sensations.
Hidden male organ
Unknown to most, over one third of the male organ is buried inside the body. It is the base of the (hidden) male organ which may be pressured in a similar manner as the prostate. The effect of stimulating all three can be awesome, if done in concert with male organ stimulation. Still more overwhelming than the physiological effects is the psychological aspect of prostate touching, due to the unaccustomed nature of penetration of the receiver.
Positions You Both Can Try
After completely undressing the receiver should assume a seated position; his back reclined and supported by large firm pillows (at about a 45 – 65 degree angle). His knees pulled in the direction of his chest and somewhat angled outward. The resulting position should be both comfortable for the receiver, as well as allowing the giver unobstructed view and unfettered access to the excretory opening and male organ of the receiver. The giver may sit cross legged, or kneel in front of the receiver.
As a way to relax the receiver, the giver may begin by massaging the receiver’s lower extremities, particularly the abdomen. It will be up to the giver to decide when the receiver is sufficiently relaxed and aroused. At this time the giver should unobtrusively slip on a glove and to begin lubricating the receiver’s excretory opening. Begin with circular motions, stroking the annal opening. The giver should never poke the excretory opening with the tip of the finger, but to gently and firmly apply pressure with the pad of the finger. Continuously add lubrication; there can never be too much lubrication! When the excretory opening is ready it will allow the finger to enter. All that is needed is time and patience.
During the arousal cycle the giver may begin to rhythmically move the inserted finger partially in and out, so as to stimulate the rich and super sensitive nerve endings around the excretory opening.
Eye contact is most desirable at the resolution phase of the experience, with the receiver and giver gazing into one another’s eyes. Various scenarios are now possible:
1. The giver will allow the receiver to self play himself to achieve flow burst. All the while the giver will be verbally encouraging the receiver to the moment of climax.
2. The giver may self play the receiver’s organ with one hand, while massaging the receiver’s excretory opening or prostate with the other. Both giver and receiver should communicate intently, so as to allow the greatest pleasure for the receiver.
3. The receiver may desire for the giver to “milk fluid” his prostate, without direct stimulation to the organ. To achieve this, the giver will gently stroke each lobe, resulting in a gentle flow of sperms and the emptying of the prostate through the hard organ