Love making is a lot like going out for dinner. Sometimes you feel like having a burger, other times you crave for noodles. Listen men folk – making love to a woman isn’t just about penetration. Women take time to warm up. And you can’t hurry through the process unless she’s aroused already. Love making is all about rhythm, and the key is to go slow.
There are several play positions, tongue twisters and pelvic thrusts that could make you feel like a superstar in bed. And unfortunately, not all of these moves work very well because every woman is different. And what turns one woman on may put off another woman.
The tips that we have mentioned here won’t ever get you in trouble in bed, because they focus on more than just specific details.
If you’re already in a long term relationship with a woman, you may know what turns her on in bed and what doesn’t, and you can use these tips along with what you know and use it to your advantage. But if you’re making out with a girl for the first time, you’re walking on a minefield because you just don’t know what she likes or totally hates in bed.
It doesn’t matter how different she is or what her preferences in bed are, because you’ll definitely turn her on and be able to work your magic on her, and always leave her wanting more!
Stay fresh and clean. Groom yourself down there. You don’t need to shave yourself completely, as long as you keep it neat looking. And if you’re having play after a long and sweaty day at work, take a shower before getting into bed. You can invite her for a quick shower if you want to start the fore play before getting into bed. It’s the little things that can make a big difference.
Explore her body. Yes, your eyes may be transfixed on her breast and her mound. But there’s so much more you can do to arouse her. Let your hands and lips wander all over her body, and once you’ve tasted and lingered on every part of her, you can get closer to her breasts. The delay and the anticipation would drive her crazy!
Beforeplay. Take time before entering into her. Remember, girls take a while to get completely aroused and ready for bed play. Entering her when she’s dry or barely aroused may hurt her, and even if she’s just ready for play, she may not enjoy it as much as she would if you take some time indulging in before play.
Pay attention to her special zones. A woman’s special zones are the sensitive spots on her body. Even if she’s feeling awkward or not in the mood, licking or nibbling her special zones can get her all hot and bothered in no time. Bring your lips to her ear lobes, her neck, her nape, elbows, forearms, underarms, or her pelvis, and you’ll see just how ready she’ll be for play in minutes.
Take time. Don’t start playing with her too soon. Touch her down there with your member and tease her by slipping it in now and then, but don’t do the to-and-fro just yet. Make her want it really badly before you slip all the way into her.
Breathe into her. Bring your face close to her face when you make love to her. And breathe deeply through your nostrils and sink your face into her neck. Women are easily aroused by a man’s smell as long as she finds him attractive, and you breathing deeply near her ear lobes while having play creates more intimacy and increases play passion in bed.
Music. Play can get rather monotonous if it stretches on in silence for more than a few minutes. Play a seductive song in the background as you make love to her. It’ll set the mood right, and it’ll also give both of you a good rhythm to work your bodies with.
Make eye contact or close your eyes. Look into her eyes when you’re on top of her. She’ll feel more connected to you and fall more in love with you. But if the stares start to feel awkward, just close your eyes and enjoy the pleasurable sensation. But avoid looking around the room or staring at something other than the girl because it’ll leave her wondering if you’re bored already.
Take her cue. Try to read her mind when you’re having it with her. Avoid asking questions because questions and confusing answers are big distractions, and they’ll take the passion straight out of the play. If she moans harder, she likes what you’re doing. If she moves her pelvis faster, she wants you to go faster. As you have play with her, try to connect with her emotionally and go with the flow. It’ll make her feel more connected to you because she’d feel like you know exactly what she wants!
Go down on her. Don’t be selfish in bed. If you enjoy going down on a girl, you can bet that she’s going to enjoy having play with you. Use the oral action as before play, but when you do go down on her, don’t make it seem like it’s always a prelude to play.
Learn to delay your out flow. How long can you last in bed? If you can’t last for at least 20 minutes on an average day, you’re probably not at your fittest state right now.
Stay harder for longer. Work out and build your stamina. Exercise improves your blood circulation which gives you harder erections and better stamina, and it also gives you a great body. You’ll feel more confident when you get undressed, she’ll love you more for looking so smoking hot, and you’ll stay hard a lot longer. And that’s good news any way you look at it.
Talk dirty and fantasize. Don’t let the to-and-fro motion get too monotonous when you’re in bed with your woman. Talk to her now and then, compliment her body or the way she feels against your body. And if you want to push the boundaries further, dirty talk with her about a play fantasy. If she likes what you say, she’ll definitely be wetting the bed in no time!
Mix it up. Go fast now and then, and get back to the slow and passionate grind. Mix up your motions in bed, and the sudden unpredicted change in pace will arouse her a lot more. Don’t ever make play seem monotonous because there’s nothing worse you can do in bed. The more innovative you are in bed, the more she’ll love you for it.
Use your hands. Don’t let your hands stay idle in bed. Move your hands over her body even after strating play with her. Don’t just place your hand behind her back to support yourself and keep it still the whole while. Move your hands over her breasts, or slide it over her back and grab herback. Use your hands often while having play because she’ll definitely like it
Try something new. If you’ve been having play a particular way for a while, try something new just to see if both of you like it. Your silent usual position may seem perfect right now, but it’ll get boring very soon if both of you don’t try something new every now and then. Have angry play, role play in bed, talk dirty, or indulge in a saxy kinky idea or two.
Every woman is different. This is very important. Every girl is unique and not all of them have the same preferences in bed. If dirty talking has worked wonders, or if music arouses one girl, it doesn’t mean the same thing would work with everyone else.
Watch how she responds to the things you do while having play with her, and try to learn what she likes and dislikes by keeping an eye on the way she moves in bed. It’s the easiest way to find out what works better, and what doesn’t make a difference.
Love making tips don’t always have to revolve around positions or tricks. Sometimes, as long as you keep the basics in mind and remember these tips, you’ll always perform well in bed, and you’ll definitely leave her craving for more!